30 Things I learned From My Mother
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30 Things I Learned From My Mother

30 Things I Learned From My Mother

When I was growing up, I was with my Mom most of the time. We went everywhere together and I was an only child. I learned a lot during all those formative years and continue to learn from her today. She is now 85 years old and I continue to learn from her. I am so blessed to have her.

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A little secret that I want to share with y’all, the picture at the top really IS my Mother back in the day. I have also included a picture of her below from this year. Isn’t she absolutely beautiful?

1. It’s okay to make mistakes in life as long as you don’t let them define you.

2. Never wear white to someone else’s wedding.

3. You, your face, and your body are beautiful no matter what society says.

4. Always wash your face before bed — always.

5. Respect yourself and others will respect you.

6. Marriage is not easy, but it’s a wonderful thing.

7. You will never have it all figured out, but no one ever does.

8. Don’t judge others — even if you think you have the whole story.

9. Rejection is not failure.

10. It’s going to be hard to succeed as a woman in this world, but you can, and when you do, you’ll be unstoppable.

11. Nobody owes you anything in this world.

12. It’s not a crime to pamper yourself when life gets too stressful.

13. Always make your bed before you leave the house.

14. Forgive but don’t forget.

15. Try to listen to people before jumping in with your own opinions.

16. No means no.

17. Your dreams are worth going after.

18. Call your parents, grandparents, and loved ones because one day you won’t have the chance to hear their voice again.

19. It’s okay to let a great opportunity go if it doesn’t make you happy.

20. Educating yourself will get you anywhere you want to go in life.

21. Stand up for what’s right, even if it’s not the most popular opinion.

22. Never leave dishes in the sink for the next morning.

23. It’s okay if you want to play sports and don’t enjoy cooking.

24. Don’t do things just for recognition.

25. Never let the world tell you you can’t have or do anything because of who you are or where you’re from.

26. Travel the world and learn as many languages as you can.

27. Take care of the poor, old, orphaned, and hungry.

28. Don’t ever belittle people because you know or have something they don’t.

29. Never leave the house without lipstick.

30. It’s NEVER too late!

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  • Kathleen Britton

    My Dad(actually)taught me at a early age this..You can say anything you want to anybody..BUT..its the way you say it..your facial expression while you say it and the tone of voice you use..
    Its taken me a long way..

  • Tammy

    You have been blessed beyond words. My mother passed away when I was 8 and they broke all 5 of us up, we have since been all reunited. I was shifted to numerous foster home, no pity, because the only regret I have was to never have a mother. I have one son (36) and I tried being the best mom I could be. My son and I are very close so I figured I’ve done something right. My point being is as you said treasure your family because someday they won’t be. The lovely message today.

    • Two Southern Sweeties

      I’m sorry for your loss at such a young age Tammy. I really would love to thank you for your comments, you never know when someones comment may help another person. I’m glad you and everyone else are enjoying the posts, especially this one. As I’m sure you can imagine, it’s dear to my heart because it has to do with my Mom.

      Make it a great day!


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